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The Pram and Grunt Test
A simple way to check city sidewalks.
Blogs
How Do I talk to my Doctor About Getting Referred to a Specialist?
Be direct and request a specific specialist.
How Do I Convince My Doctor I Need a Wheelchair?
Be persistent. Bring documentation.
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The Problem with Person-first Language
It only exists to make non-disabled people more comfortable.
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The Day the War Changed
The war changed the way people looked at bodies like mine.
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We Are Not the Cripple Police
We don’t get to decide what disability looks like.
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Stop Asking Disabled People About Their Sex Lives
Mind your fucking business, you pervert.
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Avoiding Artificial Constraints
Sometimes the simplest answer is the best.
How Do You Deal With Comparing Yourself to Other Disabled People?
Focus on your goals.
Is it Rude to Kneel Down Next to a Wheelchair User?
It depends on why you’re kneeling.