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The Day the War Changed
The war changed the way people looked at bodies like mine.
Blogs
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We Are Not the Cripple Police
We don’t get to decide what disability looks like.
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Stop Asking Disabled People About Their Sex Lives
Mind your fucking business, you pervert.
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Avoiding Artificial Constraints
Sometimes the simplest answer is the best.
How Do You Deal With Comparing Yourself to Other Disabled People?
Focus on your goals.
Is it Rude to Kneel Down Next to a Wheelchair User?
It depends on why you’re kneeling.
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Accessibility and Convenience are not the Same Thing
It is not about the side benefits of accessibility.
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I am Not a Car
This is how you sound whenever we try to share our lives.
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Awkward Conversations
This is what it is like to be disabled in a world not designed for you.
What Mobility Aid Should I Use for Temporary Paralysis?
Plan for the worse and work your way outwards.